{"id":436,"date":"2014-02-09T22:10:31","date_gmt":"2014-02-09T14:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=436"},"modified":"2014-02-09T22:10:31","modified_gmt":"2014-02-09T14:10:31","slug":"reconnect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=436","title":{"rendered":"Reconnect"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So the past 10 days or so was spent on vacation in Sydney. I was dreading it quite a fair bit. But it was generally ok. <\/p>\n<p>The latter half of it was mainly just the two of us in a mountain cabin. And something that she realized is that we don&#8217;t have much to talk about anymore. I really don&#8217;t know how to start conversations with her anymore. At least not based on any correction or frustration. <\/p>\n<p>Most of the time we are just sitting with each other any half the time distracted by our phones. When she does talk to me, I somehow get irritated. How is it that I get irritated by almost every little thing she does now? <\/p>\n<p>At least, I haven&#8217;t blown up much in the past week.<\/p>\n<p>I am at a loss. How do I reconnect with my wife?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So the past 10 days or so was spent on vacation in Sydney. I was dreading it quite a fair bit. But it was generally ok. The latter half of it was mainly just the two of us in a mountain cabin. And something that she realized is that we don&#8217;t have much to talk &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=436\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Reconnect<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":435,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/20140209-220842.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/436"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=436"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/436\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":437,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/436\/revisions\/437"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}