{"id":409,"date":"2014-01-23T17:55:56","date_gmt":"2014-01-23T09:55:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=409"},"modified":"2014-01-24T00:01:06","modified_gmt":"2014-01-23T16:01:06","slug":"list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=409","title":{"rendered":"List"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have told people to come up with a list of 10 &#8220;must haves&#8221; and 10 &#8220;must not haves&#8221; to narrow down their future partner. If the person doesn&#8217;t check of on everything, then don&#8217;t even consider it.<\/p>\n<p>I just found my old list. And realised that not all of them are checked off. Perhaps in my desperation, I actually thought she checked off on all counts. Perhaps as time went by things changed.<\/p>\n<p>I guess I know my duty is to stick it out. I&#8217;ve made the commitment and I have to live with it. But I feel right now that it is so hard to pull through, assuming that we can pull through. I almost wish I could call the whole thing off and disappear.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have told people to come up with a list of 10 &#8220;must haves&#8221; and 10 &#8220;must not haves&#8221; to narrow down their future partner. If the person doesn&#8217;t check of on everything, then don&#8217;t even consider it. I just found my old list. And realised that not all of them are checked off. Perhaps &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=409\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">List<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":416,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/20140124-000101.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=409"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":415,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409\/revisions\/415"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/416"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}