{"id":261,"date":"2013-12-29T22:20:08","date_gmt":"2013-12-29T14:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=261"},"modified":"2013-12-29T22:20:08","modified_gmt":"2013-12-29T14:20:08","slug":"wavelength","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=261","title":{"rendered":"Wavelength"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I tried to initiate some couple time today. But she seemed distracted as she usually gets. Just noticing my pores, skin, pimples etc. talk about a mood killer. This happened twice.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe that&#8217;s why most couples have their alone time at night.<\/p>\n<p>Frustrated, I just stop. Is it too much for me to expect some quality time? Is it too much for me to always initiate? She said she initiated earlier but I don&#8217;t see how, even after she explained. <\/p>\n<p>Tried talking to her about our communication issues but that doesn&#8217;t go well, as usual. I was getting frustrated again so I went to take a nap. And woke up to her still pissed at me. <\/p>\n<p>Somehow I feel like we are on two different wavelengths now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I tried to initiate some couple time today. But she seemed distracted as she usually gets. Just noticing my pores, skin, pimples etc. talk about a mood killer. This happened twice. Maybe that&#8217;s why most couples have their alone time at night. Frustrated, I just stop. Is it too much for me to expect &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=261\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Wavelength<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":260,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38,2,39],"tags":[44,48],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131229-221944.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/261"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=261"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/261\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":262,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/261\/revisions\/262"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/260"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=261"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=261"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=261"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}