{"id":171,"date":"2013-12-23T01:14:26","date_gmt":"2013-12-22T17:14:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=171"},"modified":"2013-12-26T08:47:27","modified_gmt":"2013-12-26T00:47:27","slug":"blindsided","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=171","title":{"rendered":"Blindsided"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Why is it some problems keep coming up time and time again? Why can&#8217;t issues be dropped? Why does one side always have to bring things up?<\/p>\n<p>I am fed up of being blindsided. Just because there may be other people around, a person can seemingly be alright about a certain issue but then once you are both alone, just smack the issue back into your face.<\/p>\n<p>True, I may come across as passive-aggressively shouldering the blame because I don&#8217;t want to talk about it anymore but I just want to move on and if it means accepting the burden of fault, so be it.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t take this anymore. I feel like I am on the verge of giving up. Like I am pushing myself away.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why is it some problems keep coming up time and time again? Why can&#8217;t issues be dropped? Why does one side always have to bring things up? I am fed up of being blindsided. Just because there may be other people around, a person can seemingly be alright about a certain issue but then once &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/?p=171\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Blindsided<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":208,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[38,39],"tags":[44],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/blindsided.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=171"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":172,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171\/revisions\/172"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/208"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/elijahtan.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}